Marrige RIP

ArmyJeff · Post by **ArmyJeff** » Tue Aug 22, 2006 11:49 am

Ok....im thinking a tentative Labor day weekend throw down......details to come soon.

sparky · Post by **sparky** » Tue Aug 22, 2006 6:47 pm

ArmyJeff wrote:Ok....im thinking a tentative Labor day weekend throw down......details to come soon.

ROCK ON BRO

Im off that weekend to so I could make it
and I have never dove That site yet
be a good reason to go

let me know

Sparky

diver-dad · Post by **diver-dad** » Tue Aug 22, 2006 11:48 pm

ArmyJeff wrote:Ok....im thinking a tentative Labor day weekend throw down......details to come soon.

Sorry guys - I've got that weekend planned out already. Gonna have to take a rain check.

bnboly · Post by **bnboly** » Wed Aug 23, 2006 1:31 am

Bummer dude!

Let's hope you ex isn't like mine! In '85 we divorced and in '86 I was reassigned to Germany. In '87 my CO received a call from MPI that one of his soldiers was using a stolen idenity.......... My ex had decided to have me declared legally dead!!! Now that was fun!

thelawgoddess · Post by **thelawgoddess** » Wed Aug 23, 2006 8:45 am

diver-dad wrote:The life of an Army / Navy / Marine wife is very hard when faced with long deployment of their husbands, and many can't take the stress of home, car, bills, kids, etc. Try to imagine your spouse going away for 6 months or a year without seeing them except for a few of days over that time if you're lucky and you've got responsibility for EVERYTHING.

this is certainly a huge issue, and entirely understandable. my dad was in the air force, and - well - let's just say i have more than one mom. the military (as well as other jobs involving periods of absence, like commercial fishing) can be really tough on half of a couple - for both halves. people can have pretty severe moments of weakness, but if they are prudent those moments can be overcome. and if they can't, there is little (or no) excuse for not owning up to that in a "more mature" manner. while these situations can be incredibly complex and we can't even begin to know the whole story, cheating for months on end and throwing that in your spouse's face one day (regardless of the circumstances) is "poor" at best ...
i just wanted to add that i don't think any of us are here to judge; but we are definitely here to support.

bnboly · Post by **bnboly** » Wed Aug 23, 2006 11:00 pm

Very well put LG!

BASSMAN · Post by **BASSMAN** » Thu Aug 24, 2006 5:58 am

No offense meant to Sunny Side but Labor day weekend will be all about Titlow, Day Island or Sunrise.

Pinkpadigal · Post by **Pinkpadigal** » Fri Aug 25, 2006 11:23 pm

I have been there and I feel your pain. Going through a divorce is stressful and what kept me sane was good friends and diving.

Looks like you have a lot of both to help you through.

Take care and you will get to the other side.